♥Jared and Chantelle♥

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Sunday, October 11, 2009 ; 9:14 PM♥

❤ Jared's Baby's Story {:

Hey everyone!!

Well, today this post, I've blogged in Kudat, Sabah in my own hometown! It's not a good post but I'm really glad I'm here to blog about this post! Well It's seriously a sad post!! Thought I'm going to be deactive on the blogging thing for a while cause of GCE O'level, but then at the end I can't I have to share this with the world!! Well, I've remembered one day from one of my teacher, Teacher Aisha, ( my current 2009 chemistry teacher!) She said that "Once people were borned out in this world, we meant to be dead!" Although it's kinda harsh but it's really true! If you don't believe think about it! Once we're born in the wide and brillant world, we're going to die on day right it's just a matter of time whether when!! From what I've written, I bet you guys know what am i trying to blog about already!

On 10.10.2009, Saturday Morning, My grandmother from my daddy's side in Kudat, Sabah has passed away in the early morning! (RIP grandma, I'll always remember all the childhood that you gave me!) My family received this news at around 11am. My dad was the person who get the news first! Well, we don't feel really sad because my grandma walked off this world peacefully! This is because the night before she passed away, she has ate alot of foods and in the morning she has visited the toilet before the went off! The best thing was the way and situation that my grandma passed away is the exact way my grandpa pasted away! That proof that they are really loving!! After hearing all the news, my mummy and daddy rushed home and ask me and to pack my clothes, we're leaving in a minutes! We started our journey at 2pm! Ya..sat in the car for hours without stopping, of course my job is to sleep the whole way so that I won't felt dizzy after all the bumpy ride!

Today, I'm in Kudat already, the place where my grandparents' take good care of my daddy! Well, funeral in here and in Brunei is totally different. All the things we have to do is just stay at home and not to go anywhere! I can't wash my hair for 3 days after my grandma has been placed in the cemetry! Then we have to wear black everyday except for Wednesday! Well, no RED shirt allow! anything ok just no red things! Anyway people here donating the 'PING KIM' something like giving money, the people get a small wrapped paper with 20cents of malaysia coin and wrapped it with red paper and candies were given! See!! They give people thing in return as a good luck for them and thanks for that!! And i have to wear fully white for that day on the funeral thing happen after everything done i have to wear red shirt! I mean this is totally different! And I can't visit my grandma house for 100 days!! By the day we wore red shirt, we're able to wear any colour of shirt already! And we cannot cook anything for this 3 days so everyday 'makan luar saja with nice foods'! *GAINING WEIGHT!* I can't wash my HAIR~~ It's going to be oily and itchy BUT NO KUTU!!! hahaha I'm really going to be dirty on hair but not on body and face!! hehehe

Anyway, I'm going to share a short thing that I think it's cool!! Read it IF you like it!! hehehe going to end my blogging soon!! hahaha so here's go!!

LIFE ISN'T EASY- Mary A.Rothman

Life can be unfair at times
When you must maintain faith
And never let go.

It is especially during the difficult time
That you must live your life
To its fullest potential.

Those are the times to truimph
Over circumstances
With hope and courage.

Life isn't always easy,
But if you keep going and persereve
To the very best of your ability
You will gain strength to manage
The new challenges ahead.

Each goal that you reach
Is another important step forward.

Believe that there are
Bright and wonderful days
Ahead for you and you will find them.

chantelle.313

I miss you alot baby! I really do! Please stay safe and be strong and healthy and wait for me k? I love you and miss you badly!!! LOVE YA LOTS!!! hehehehhehe Love YOU!!! I MISS AND LOVE YOU BADLY JARED LIM!!!!!!!!